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189: Tom Hale and Living an Authentic Life

Tom Hale is the author of Authentic Lives, a 2nd year PhD student in intercultural studies at Fuller School of Intercultural Studies. Today, he shares about growing up in Nepal, working for nearly two decades in the former Soviet Union, and why he is passionate about living authentically. Tom’s story helps us think more deeply about how we represent ourselves.
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Stories Tom shared:
Growing up in Nepal as the son of American doctors at a village hospital
When his mom dropped him off at boarding school
Finding his niche in high school
Sharing conversation with friends from different backgrounds
How the Navigators helped him grow in faith
A time in the Navy
Eventually moving to the former Soviet Union
Problems with labels: when the way people describe you isn’t how you think of yourself
Great quotes from Tom:
Sometimes when we say something is spiritually dark, what we’re reflecting is modernity vs. premodernity.
It is possible to come up with a life mission that you can share with anyone.
Resources we mentioned:
Authentic Lives: Overcoming the Problem of Hidden Identity in Outreach to Restrictive Nations by Thomas Hale III
Transcending Mission: The Eclipse of a Modern Tradition by Michael W. Stroope
Related episodes:
Michael Cooper and the International Call
VJ and Small Beginnings
Idella Kercher and God’s Abundant Provision
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188: Gregory Gillam and the Road of Healing

Gregory Gillam is an author, speaker, and former fundraiser. Today, Gregory shares the life he was satisfied with, the cancer diagnosis that rocked his world, and how his life turned from raising money to ministry. Gregory was healed from pancreatic cancer but still struggled with anxiety and depression at a time when his son was experiencing the same. So Gregory set out to learn what God says through Scripture about depression and wrote a book about it. Gregory’s story reminds us that Jesus is always working and sometimes completely changes the course of our lives.
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Stories Gregory shared:
Living in an RV doing ministry
Growing up in a Christian home in Southern California
Dealing with anxiety and disconnection as a teenager
Receiving a diagnosis of pancreatic cancer
Realizing there is nothing he could do to change the situation except pray
The miracle of healing from cancer
Being satisfied with his life as a professional fundraiser
People not believing he was healed
The dreams he had that led him to the road
Suffering depression after he was healed
Connecting with his son through depression and anxiety
Great quotes from Gregory:
It’s been a slow and steady discovery of him in my life.
There’s a fine line between loving money and loving having money.
God uses us in ways we can’t understand.
Resources we mentioned:
Gregory’s website
30 Days: Emails from a father to a son battling depression by Gregory Gillam
Related episodes:
Sarah Geringer and Transforming Your Thought Life
Wesley Ross Harris and Growing Faith and Mental Illness
Matthew Rennels and Overcoming Fear
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187: Mark Scandrette and Unconventional Christianity

Mark Scandrette is an author and globally recognized expert on practical spiritual formation. Today, Mark shares the story of his traditional Evangelical upbringing by sincere parents, his multifaceted and many conversions, and pursuing the way of Jesus. Mark has a very grounded approach to following Jesus that speaks loudly. He opens up about wrestling his life in Christ away from “shame and should” into the freedom that Christ offers. These days, he writes and travels to speak around the world while his obvious love for the Lord spills out everywhere. His story shows us what happens when you stay on the journey. If it’s possible for him, it’s possible for you, too.
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Stories Mark shared:
Growing up as a military kid moving all over
His family’s healthy spirituality and vitality
Praying “the prayer” as a young boy to avoid hell
Being the “God kid” at school who always had his Bible
Multiple “conversions” he experienced as he grew in faith
Committing to voluntary poverty and moving to the city
Finding that he was still motivated by shame
Discovering silent retreats during seminary
Moving to San Francisco to plant a church
Being confronted by the realities of church history
Discovering Dallas Willard and his writing
The practices he found that helped him
Founding an organization to practice the teachings of Jesus
Great quotes from Mark:
Christianity as it’s practiced in America is not that attractive to me but I couldn’t walk away from the vitality I saw in my family.
I might not be a conventional Christian anymore but I really want to follow Jesus.
Shame and should can only get you so far; eventually you have to find a different motivation.
Resources we mentioned:
Ninefold Path
Mark’s website
Practicing the Way of Jesus: Life Together in the Kingdom of Love by Mark Scandrette
Belonging and Becoming: Creating a Thriving Family Culture by Mark Scandrette
Thin Places: Six Postures for Creating and Practicing Missional Community by Mark Scandrette
Related episodes:
Phileena Heuertz and Christian Contemplation
Matt Rhodes Blends Spiritual Formation and Creativity
Cari Jenkins and Who You Really Are
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186: Curtis Sergeant and the Catalyst of Movements

Curtis Sergeant is a disciple making movement catalyst and author of The Only One. Today, Curtis shares the story when he experienced a call to unreached people groups, how his work there led millions to Christ, and how suffering multiplied his effectiveness. Curtis has trained people in every country in the world to bring the Gospel to their people. It’s a unique gifting that God is using for his glory around the globe.
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Stories Curtis shared:
Running a missions and disciple making training center in Alabama
Growing up as missionary kid
Experiencing a clear call to preach the Gospel to unreached people
Preparing to be tentmaker and working in Olympic development
What a disciple-making movement is and why it’s relevant to us
How he discovered obedience in Scripture
How he learned to live with a constant awareness of God
The season of suffering that helped him depend on the Lord
Why he wrote The Only One
Great quotes from Curtis:
The big idea in movements is that every disciple is called to be a disciple maker.
God used those horrible circumstances to achieve something in me…and, for his glory, in that people group something that never would have happened.
It has been a remarkable privilege to know people in so many places that are laying down their lives for the Kingdom.
Resources we mentioned:
The Only One: Living Fully In, By, and For God by Curtis Sergeant
Zume Project
2414now
Metacamp
The Practice of the Presence of God by Brother Lawrence
Related episodes:
Michael T. Cooper and the International Call
Os Guinness and Carpe Diem Redeemed
Sarah Geringer and Transforming Your Thought Life
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185: Jay Holland and the Goodness of God

Jay Holland is a pastor, author, and podcaster. His podcast is called Let’s Parent on Purpose. As a youth pastor, he realized that more spiritual formation happens in the home than during time at church gatherings. So he started his podcast to empower families to make better disciples. Today, Jay shares the story of stepping out in faith when the Lord asked him to, questioning God when his wife died, and struggling through his cancer with his son. Through it all, Jay points to the goodness of God’s grace in his life. He’s learned to trust as he traveled through the darkest parts of the journey.
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Stories Jay shared:
Starting his podcast, Let’s Parent on Purpose to help families
Growing up in a Christian family in West Virginia
Praying for salvation as a young child
Going to AWANA as a child
Meeting his future wife on the first day of his senior year of high school
Getting involved in Bible Study in college
When the Lord asked him to leave the Air Force Academy
Struggling with pregnancy and how that challenged his faith
Finally having a baby girl
The “spiritual meat grinder” while his wife’s health deteriorated
The night his wife Christy died
Nurturing healing for sometime and moving to Nashville
Meeting Emily and finding love again
Moving to South Florida
Thinking his child had pneumonia and receiving a leukemia diagnosis instead
How people rallied around them during treatment
Great quotes from Jay:
When you’ve got a good father, it’s natural that you’ll want to go to God.
I always had a tenderness toward Jesus.
I know where God is in the darkness.
At bottom, Jesus was the rock.
When the bomb goes off, it’s too late too find the people you need in your life.
In the midst of darkness and sadness, Jesus is doing a work.
Resources we mentioned:
Jay’s website and podcast, Let’s Parent on Purpose
Related episodes:
Tricia Lott Williford and How God Works in the Waiting
Markus Watson and How Suffering Transforms
Jim Barnard Finds Hope in Suffering in Community
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184: April Diaz and Power and Justice in the Kingdom

April Diaz is the founder and lead warrior of Ezer + Co. She is also a wife, mom, advocate, and disruptor all of which we get a small glimpse of in this conversation. Today, April shares her story of starting full time ministry early in life, learning to take care of herself so she can lead better, and the clarity brought by a difficult season. Her ministry, Ezer + Co, is helping women “lead with wholeness” and bringing out the best in them to create a better world. April’s heart for the oppressed shines through in this conversation and reminds us of God’s heart for them, too.
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Stories April shared:
Starting Ezer + Co., speaking, and telling her story
Growing up in the Midwest in a farming family while her dad pursued ministry
Leading as a high schooler and how that opened up her ideas
The people who invested in her well
Hearing God say “go to the land I will show you” and where that led their family
Wrestling with panic attacks
The good advice she received from a spiritual director
Moving to California to take a middle school pastor position
How a monthly practice of silence and solitude keeps her grounded
Moving back to the Midwest and feeling out of place
The clarity that the difficult season brought
Recognizing the privilege of being a white girl
Started Ezer + Co. and the ways that challenged her theology
Great quotes from April:
I love challenging things. I’m all about burning down all the stuff that hurts people. And I want to rebuild things that are for all of us not just those with the power.
God is powerful and desires for there to be justice for us all.
Self-leadership is what makes or breaks our ability to stay leading.
Resources we shared:
The Global Fringe Podcast
Ezer & Co’s website
Male and Female (Intimate Marriage Series) by Tremper Longman
Related episodes:
Meg Calvin and Permission for Ambition
Engel Jones and the Power of Connection
Penni Zelinkof and Releasing Not Good Enough
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183: Terry Wardle and the Healing Journey

Terry Wardle is a pastor, speaker, and author or Some Kind of Crazy:An Unforgettable Story of Profound Brokenness and Breathtaking Grace. Today, Terry shares his story of growing up in a rough family, surrendering to Christ after a wild night, and eventually breaking down under the weight of expectations. Terry eventually found healing in a psychiatric hospital and learned the process of healing prayer. Terry is still a miner but now, he mines gold in people’s souls not coal. I know his story will encourage you.
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Stories Terry shared:
Leading a healing ministry
Growing up in coal mining country in Pennsylvania
Experiencing trauma as a child at the hands of his family who didn’t process trauma
Developing a false self in his youth
The revival that began to change his family
Attending a crusade and experiencing Jesus
Checking into a psychiatric facility
Why emotions lead our experience
How Jesus changed his understanding of his intellect
Discovering Jesus’ suffering in Gethsemane as an example
Beginning to share his story
What keeps us from entering into healing
Great quotes from Terry:
I grew up in a world that communicated that “as you are you’re not enough.”
Christ doesn’t want just part of our story. He wants our whole story.
Jesus does some of his best work in the ditch.
The Church has to become an unconditionally loving, confidential, non-condemning, non-judgemental community where we all admit that we’re wounded, where we’re meeting Christ in the wounded, where we welcome the wounded.
Resources we mentioned:
Terry’s website
Some Kind of Crazy: An Unforgettable Story of Profound Brokenness and Breathtaking Grace by Terry Wardle
Terry’s podcast Slingstones
Related episodes:
Marc Schelske and Wisdom of Your Heart
Patrick Meyers and the Kind Initiator
Brandy Goebel and Running Back to You
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182: Jennifer Eikenhorst and An Accidental Hope

Jennifer Eikenhorst is an aspiring author and podcaster who started a ministry called Accidental Hope, whose mission is to educate, research, and offer relief from serious accidents involving fatality. Today, Jennifer shares her stories of being  drawn to the Lord as a child, getting out of an abusive relationship, and the car accident that changed her life. Jennifer shares the moment she decided to fight her depression and the tool that helped most. Jennifer’s story reminds us that being honest about your pain is the only true path to healing.
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Stories Jennifer shared:
Teaching middle school math
Growing up in an agnostic home in a great family
The hunger for the Lord as a young girl
The uncle who prayed for her when she was six months old
Cobbling together a philosophy from school, church, and home
Discovering a gift of intercession
Being manipulated into a relationship that changed her
The accident that killed a motorcyclist and changed her life
How close she felt to the Lord as she navigated the aftermath
Dealing with PTSD and suicidal ideation after the accident
Making a list of God’s attributes vs. Satan’s
Great quotes from Jennifer:
When I couldn’t keep the facade up anymore, then some real healing happened.
It is really, truly about a relationship in your heart with him.
I knew he was real and that made me more angry.
Again, I was hiding truth to not disappoint people.
Resources we mentioned:
Jennifer’s website
Accidental H0pe on Facebook
AccidentalImpacts.org
Related episodes:
Jim Barnard Finds Hope in Suffering through Community
Shari Malott is Fighting for Hope
Mark Waltz and Radical Acceptance in Relationship
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